: Hey so my bf is in bootcamp now for the marines and he's guna be back next month!!(: he's written letters saying he's missed me and loves me but what if he come back and doesn't want me anymore? He's here for 10 days and is leving again I haven't seen him in 3 months, what if he doesn't like me anymore or want me?
I literally felt the exact same way when my boyfriend was deployed, but then I realized when he came home that it was absolutely ridiculous!! You are the part of home he is holding close to his heart and I’m sure the one person that he is the most excited to see :) Have faith in your relationship and how far you both have come!
If he does feel differently when he comes home and there is tension, then have a talk about it. If you love each other very much there should be a conversation. It shouldn’t be as simple as walking away from someone who has been supporting you and waiting for you while you have been away. I can’t see anyone doing that unless something completely drastic has happened like cheating. Anyways, I’m getting off topic lol sorry.
Be true to your relationship and remember that he took the time to write you during boot camp! That was for a specific reason :) Because he LOVES you!!! Congratulations on getting your man back and congratulations to him on completing boot camp!!! Update us on how everything goes and if you still need to vent or talk about this feel free to message any of the members privately :)
: Can I please be added to the directory?! My boyfriend is a Marine.
Added :) xoxo
: Can you please add me to the directory? My name is Ola-Cymone and my boyfriend's branch is Army
Of course! Added :) xoxo
: I met my boyfriend at basic. He's active duty, I'm national guard. He's deployed in Afghanistan and we've been long distance most of our relationship. It's kind of out a strain on us and sometimes he ignores me on purpose. I can tell by the way he talks to me he still cares, how can I keep continue to keep faith. I know he's my soulmate but our relationship is more stress then happiness right now.
Hi anon, thank you so much for writing! I feel like this is very common, unfortunately. Long distance can definitely be very strenuous when all you want for your relationship is happiness. No matter what, your relationship should bring you joy and unfortunately if it doesn’t then I don’t think it is the right relationship for you. I don’t think it is ever okay for someone to ignore you on purpose, no matter the situation. Please don’t accept that in your relationship. You deserve a lot better than that! I think the best thing to do is keep honest and open communication with your boyfriend. If you tell him how you feel I am sure he will feel the same way and maybe you can come up with a way to make it less stressful on both of you. It is really exhausting to feel that way every single day. Keep telling each other how much you love one another. You can really never say it enough :) Talk about the future and your plans together. Plan things out. Make dreams together. The future is what you have to look forward to! I hope things get better love. We are all here for you.
: I haven't heard from my so in three days.. last thing I heard from him was he was getting done with his disciplinary board.. meaning he may get extra duty, discharged, or over seas.. I just want a call from him.. we've barley talked in a month... ya know hes going through depression... and this is making me scared. i'm panicking, i'm crying, i'm just scared because I realized now.. that I love him and he's depressed and his dreams are slipping away.. and i can't do anything but sit here and cry
I am so sorry about this love :( It’s crazy to me that he wouldn’t even text you quick just to say he is okay. This might seem crazy, but if I were you I would message one of his friends (if you know any of them) and ask them to check on him just to see if he is okay. You’re worried about it and you have a right to be. I can totally understand how you feel. It hurts to know that you can’t do anything to change the situation. Just try to keep being your supportive self. I wish I could be more help:( Stay strong we are all here for you <3