about us:
This is a network support group for all milso's. We want you to know we are all here for you, so feel free to message any of us if you need advice, a friend, just someone to rant to, or even submit your stories and pictures. We'd love to hear for you! xx If you would like to keep a message private please let us know, as all other messages will be published.

Check out the directory for other lovely milso's to follow. If you'd like to be added, just ask! (Be sure to include your name & branch your SO is in.)

Under members you can find the links to the personal blogs of all the girls who help run The Milso Network.

helpful websites:
----------- janes-list.com/deployment-tips ------------- marineparents.com ---- military.com/spouse ----- facebook.com/ourdeployment101 --
heartopen-headup: Can I please be added to the directory?! My boyfriend is a Marine. 

Added :) xoxo

kinksofalltraits: Can you please add me to the directory? My name is Ola-Cymone and my boyfriend's branch is Army 

Of course! Added :) xoxo

Anonymous: I met my boyfriend at basic. He's active duty, I'm national guard. He's deployed in Afghanistan and we've been long distance most of our relationship. It's kind of out a strain on us and sometimes he ignores me on purpose. I can tell by the way he talks to me he still cares, how can I keep continue to keep faith. I know he's my soulmate but our relationship is more stress then happiness right now. 

Hi anon, thank you so much for writing!  I feel like this is very common, unfortunately.  Long distance can definitely be very strenuous when all you want for your relationship is happiness.  No matter what, your relationship should bring you joy and unfortunately if it doesn’t then I don’t think it is the right relationship for you.  I don’t think it is ever okay for someone to ignore you on purpose, no matter the situation.  Please don’t accept that in your relationship.  You deserve a lot better than that!  I think the best thing to do is keep honest and open communication with your boyfriend.  If you tell him how you feel I am sure he will feel the same way and maybe you can come up with a way to make it less stressful on both of you.  It is really exhausting to feel that way every single day.  Keep telling each other how much you love one another.  You can really never say it enough :) Talk about the future and your plans together.  Plan things out.  Make dreams together.  The future is what you have to look forward to!  I hope things get better love.  We are all here for you.

xoxo Alexa


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daises-and-freedom: I haven't heard from my so in three days.. last thing I heard from him was he was getting done with his disciplinary board.. meaning he may get extra duty, discharged, or over seas.. I just want a call from him.. we've barley talked in a month... ya know hes going through depression... and this is making me scared. i'm panicking, i'm crying, i'm just scared because I realized now.. that I love him and he's depressed and his dreams are slipping away.. and i can't do anything but sit here and cry 

I am so sorry about this love :( It’s crazy to me that he wouldn’t even text you quick just to say he is okay.  This might seem crazy, but if I were you I would message one of his friends (if you know any of them) and ask them to check on him just to see if he is okay.  You’re worried about it and you have a right to be.  I can totally understand how you feel.  It hurts to know that you can’t do anything to change the situation.  Just try to keep being your supportive self.  I wish I could be more help:( Stay strong we are all here for you <3

xoxo Alexa


I am so beyond happy to have this man home safe and sound! We’ve been married a little over a year, nine months of it he has spent deployed, and before that we were long distance. FINALLY we get to start a life together. I love him more than I could ever explain.